building

It's really a shed,

pretty much.

Tyler calls it the cabin.

I think I'll be callin' it the castle.

Whatever you want to call it,

we

(we - being they. with me watching little ones, as usual)

started building it today!!

We talked about it off and on,

but couldn't really quite figure out how to make it work.

Tyler hates to put a single cent into this house;

I don't see it as putting $$ into the house

so much as

spending some money on my sanity.

Anyways

he finally figured out that we could build this additional space

as a shed

on skids, so it'd be totally movable

if ever we do build a for real house...

and just attach the shed / cabin / castle

to the house with a hallway.

It's not huge

just a 12 x16 ft room, with 2 lofts

but it'll increase the size of our house drastically

so I'm pretty darned excited.

Tyler has been looking forward to the building of it.

Me?

I'm just looking forward to having it.

They made excellent progress today

and hope to get the floor in & insulated by tomorrow evening.

Tyler said he looked like he ought to be in Mother Earth News :-)

My youngest brother and his sweet gal

are coming to help for a few days

so that'll be fun.

That boy is a whiz at carpentry

so things'll go pretty quick with him here.

Level floor

straight walls - uncracked

nice windows - that open

Ooh - this is just too good!

And best of all ~ a pantry!

I can hardly wait.

Happy Birthday, Jesus

You have to admit,

giving gifts to folks other than the 'birthday boy'

 is an odd way of celebrating the birthday boy's birth.

I struggle with being in the world and not of it

in lots of areas, Christmas included.

It's not that I'm a Scrooge.

Really, I'm not.

In fact 

I love giving just the right gift!

And wrapping it up all pretty, too!!

It's just really hard for me to keep 

'the Reason for the season'

as the most important thing

when so much other doing and shopping

is part of 'the season' also.

For several years,

we've been 'cutting back'

but still,

when you have an above average-sized family,

not much

is still

a lot.

Taking a cue from beautiful Ann 

we included gifts for the Birthday Boy

in our Christmas festivities.

After the family gifts had been opened

and played with

and worn; 

and the meal eaten,

we

had a party!

It was a little backwards, though;

instead of bringing our gifts to the party,

we shopped for them

during our party.

We divided up the money we received for Christmas

from my dad and my grandpa,

(thank-you so much!!)

and after reading Matthew 25:34-40

and explaining what we were doing,

everyone (generously!) added in some money of their own.

Some were more adamant than others

about what their purchases would be.

Lily wanted to give chocolate

- no surprise there ;-)

but once I explained that Jesus had no use for chocolate (gasp!)

she was insistent on using her money for milk

and water

and no amount of trying to talk her into going in on other purchases

could talk her out of her milk and water

so

milk and water it was!

We shopped from most of the places Ann mentioned,

going back and forth between sites

to choose the very best price on each particular item we wanted.

Lily, Tony, and Brandon all spent their money alone.

Jeremiah, Josiah and Lexi put theirs together,

and so did Tyler and I.

Well, actually, Tyler spent $25 of his

 and just gave the rest to me to spend,

since I'm such a savvy shopper :-)

We ended up
spreading our purchases out between five different organizations.

Tony thought it seemed a little weird to 'comparison shop' such giving

but agreed we wanted to give as much as possible.

All together

(this is so exciting!)

we spent $452 

and bought Jesus

a week's worth of milk

clean water for a family

SIX goats (yay!!!)

Chickens for TWO families or orphans

1 beehive with bees and supplies

6 mosquito nets (with natural insecticide :-)

seeds, tools, and training for an orphan

and some emergency food 

(Tyler thought it was all good and well to feed them in the future

but thought we really needed to feed the hungry now, too!)

Our Birthday Party for Jesus

was the best part of the day for me

and I think it will become a new tradition.

Happy Birthday, Jesus!

the apple don't fall far from the tree

Lexi got herself ready to go outside today.

I chuckled at her choice of shoes.

Then as I was buttoning her sweater, 

I caught sight of my own feet.

gift for Gramma

We got together yesterday

to celebrate Christmas with my side of the family

(with my mom - not to be confused with celebrating Christmas

with my side of the family - with my Dad, which we did on Friday)

I had a really hard time coming up with a gift for my Grandma.

She needs nothing.

And about all she wants is sweets

but she really shouldn't have sweets. 

A few years ago

she had a mini stroke

and her memory has really suffered because of it.

She used to be able to fix anything

and she was a whiz with machines and computers.

Now

she doesn't even turn her computer on.

I feel bad admitting it,

but when I still hadn't come up with a gift

by Saturday evening,

I just decided

 no gift.

I told myself she wouldn't remember if I'd given her anything or not,

so it was no biggie.

I felt kinda bad about it,

but I'm not one to spend money

on junk somebody doesn't need

or even want

all in the name of 'gift-giving'.

I woke up Sunday

still feeling like a heel

but reminded myself, "She won't remember tomorrow..."

And it hit me.

She won't remember.

But I do.

And so I thought I'd just  type up a few memories and print them off.

maybe I could buy a frame on the way.....

Then I saw a jar in my kitchen

a tall skinny jar

perfect for strips of paper

and I knew what I was supposed to do.

A month of memories.

I'm not sure what the gift will mean to Gramma

but I am so glad I gave her this.

It was a gift to me, too! 

I realized what a wonderful Grandma she has been

and that many of my memories

are tied to her.

If I can be half the grandma to my sweet grandkids

as she has been to hers,

I'll be doin' just fine.

****

Gramma Joyce called as I was finishing up this post.

She sounded 10 years younger 

and didn't have that whine in her voice

"I just read my first memory and I wanted to share it with you...."

And she read the first of 31 strips of paper.

and then she said,

"I remember."

I love you, Gramma!!

fingerprints and following

As I type

Tyler is at the police department

being fingerprinted.

My good hubby ~ who'd a thunk?!

****

My sweet friend, Renee, posted a quote on facebook the other day

that perfectly captured where we are at right now.

Or at least, where I am.

 “The true follower of Christ will not ask,

 ‘If I embrace this truth what will it cost me?’ 

Rather, he will say, ‘This is truth. God help me to walk in it.

 Let come what may.’”

On Monday, we turned in paperwork
requesting to become the legal guardians of

and U.S. sponsors for Marcos.

Marcos is currently in a detention center
in south Texas, where he was caught after illegally entering the US.
When I think about what this may cost me

I get overwhelmed;

but when I think about what it would cost

to not walk in the path God has laid out for us

well

that's just not acceptable.

And so we walk.

Let come what may.

(for those unfamiliar with these types of proceedings - the fingerprints

are just one of many hoops to jump through for our government)

how's that??

I mis-spoke,

which is quite common.

Once upon a time

I'd realize something didn't come out quite right

and ask the kids, "What did I just say?"

I don't usually even catch myself anymore

and it's only when the kids look at me weird

or question me

that I realize 

I've done it again.

After calling French Toast 

waffles

- and being corrected - 

Lily asked, "Why do you do that?"

I said,

"Well, I'm trying to recover from a seven year sleep deprivation."

Jeremiah thought a second,

"So, that means,

you've only had this problem since I was born."

Then the light dawned
and he looked at me with a sheepish grin.

...speaking of reading

Not counting Stepping Heavenward

which I generally read every January,

I don't read fiction.

Haven't since book 5 or 6 of the Left Behind series.

Not because I dislike it

mind you

but because I have so very much to learn

that my reading time is generally spent educationally.

That 

and I have very little self control

and could easily get completely engrossed in a good book

and neglect 

well

pretty much everything

'til I finished it.

I recently checked out the book Garden Spells

from our library.

It was one of the books I found that looked interesting

through one of Ginny's yarn alongs

although

I have no clue exactly who was reading it....

I thought it was a book about using herbs

-and it is-

but it also

isn't.

I'd forgotten that I checked it out

and when I went through the library basket

looking for books to return, I found it

and decided I'd take it with me to my hair appointment this morning.

(I hate to sit there

doing nothing

when I get my hair cut!)

I intended to look at it last night

you know - to make sure I wouldn't get bored with it

and end up 

with nothing to do

while my hair was bein' done.

I never got the chance to even crack the cover

but I grabbed it anyways as I walked out the door.

It turns out

it isn't really an educational book at all

- as in - 

the reader isn't left knowing how to make potions and such.

It's fiction.

And you know what?

I have thoroughly enjoyed it so far;

Sarah Addison Allen is a delightful storyteller!

Now, if you'll excuse me,

I 

have a book to finish.

a quiet spot for reading

daddy and daughter date

clarification

Yesterday evening a gal told me, 

“I’ve heard your baby is like this one.” 

She pointed to her youngest, “Spoiled and mean.”  

I bristled.

 Lexi may be a handful. 

She’s determined and willful. She doesn’t sleep much. 

She’s adventurous and mischievous. 

She’s argumentative.

 And opinionated. 

She hasn’t yet learned to share very well. 

She’s loud. She’s stubborn.

 Lexi is lots of things. 

But Lexi is not spoiled and mean.

Yes. 

We sometimes affectionately call her The Beastie. 

I may have even called her a beast

 (without the endearing ‘ie’) 

once or twice when my own patience had worn thin. 

Challenging? 

Yes. 

But not spoiled and mean.

She is already rapidly outgrowing her nickname. 

Which, incidentally, came from a much loved children’s book. 

If, by calling her ‘The Beastie’, 

I have left anyone with the impression that our Lex’ is a horrid creature

 well, I apologize.

She’s pretty much like all the rest of our babies.

 A sinner in need of a Savior.  

A huge handful. 

And very very loved.

happy

Tyler wanted to hire out some work on the property

and T was in need of being hired

so it was a perfect fit.

Since meals  and a bed came with the job,

TJ had been staying here since Saturday.

The kids got used to him being here pretty quickly

and thoroughly enjoyed the extra attention they got.

This morning

when Lexi woke up, she asked about him.

I told her he was gone for a bit.

She replied, "Home soon?"

I told her yes, for a little while.

She smiled

 and put her head on my shoulder,

"Happy."

I don't think she'll be quite so happy

when I tell her 

that 

last night 

was his last one here.

over-rated

I had my first ever Starbucks coffee today.

It was from the little shop inside of Target

staffed solely by a slow-moving gal in a red smock

so I'm not sure that it even exactly qualifies as 

Starbucks.

I ordered the Pumpkin Spice Latte

tall

which is a silly name, cause tall - is small.

Anyways.

I could taste neither pumpkin 

or spice

and I'm really not sure what all the fuss is about.

For this I paid four dollars??
Four dollars!!

My French Vanilla beans from Walmart

make a much better cup of joe in my opinion.

And people go to Starbucks regularly??

all Lexi all the time

I took about fifty million pictures of Lexi yesterday

(give or take a few million)

'cause she was just so busy

and she's so darn ca-ute

who, me?

 We discovered a perfect job for Lex'!

I know - it looks like slave labor

but really, she's lovin' it.

She's just serious about her work.

just how does this thing work??

  Lexi helped make dinner

and we stupidly just left her on the chair.

I went back in the kitchen a few minutes later to find

 her busy cleaning

so stinking CUTE!

see, I clean

oh, look what I found. A bink. Aiden. AIDEN

oh well. Aiden's not here. I'll try it out.

 She seemed to be doing just fine

so I left her again.

Yes

on the counter.

Only for a second, though.

 It seems

the girl was thirsty.

I did go ahead and remover her from the counter at this point.

After donning dry clothes

(that had been discarded earlier in the day

in favor of the pink dress)

Lex' wanted to help fold laundry.

I tried giving her a washcloth

but no

she wanted one of Papa's shirts.

OH! the cheekers! I still love 'em!

If I can just get it spread out....

almost got it

Yeah!!

 Not only can the girl

do dishes and laundry

and get her own drink

she can sort!

this one, right here? where does it go?

with the green triangles, of course!

 OH

 Lexi Girl ~ Momma loves you!

rollin' rollin' rollin'

And the big news....

New Wheels for Tony!

Ton' has been saving his money for a car 

for pretty much his whole life.

When he started working at MarketPlace

Tyler helped him set up a budget

and he's put at least $500 a month in his auto fund since then.

(he's also got saving's accounts specifically for

giving

his house

and his future family.

Irrelevant to this post, but interesting anyways, don't you think?)

Tony really wanted a small SUV

- his top pick being a Toyota Forerunner -

but thought he might have to settle on a car

to get good gas mileage.

He and Tyler have been checking the ads for several weeks now

and last week

they found it!

A gal who works at ABF was selling a 2001 Toyota Rav4

which happens to be a small SUV

that also gets good gas mileage!!

We are so thankful that God provided Tony with a good vehicle

in his price range

(actually cheaper than Blue Book value!)

in the style he was hoping for.

It'll also hold a car seat or two.

He checked.

'cause you just never know... 

We're so proud of you, Bud!

Congratulations on your first car!

Master doesn't like it

when The Woman doesn't post for days on end.

Let's see. 

Thanksgiving.

We went to my mom's

 and it was really a pretty relaxing holiday.

Not for my mom, though. Sorry 'bout that, Mom!

This was the first Thanksgiving in 27 years

that I didn't make a single pie.

(or a double pie, for that matter..)

I can't help but think the two are related.

My pies taste good

- or rather they used to

 back in the old days

when we ate Crisco and white store-bought flour - 

but man

everyone  has to leave me alone

while I roll out the dough!

I've been going through our bedroom

sorting

and getting rid of as much as I can.

I'm just so sick of this house always being a mess.

But you know how that kind of cleaning goes;

things get worse before they get better.

I've been sharing the bed with a bunch of piles for almost a week.

ugh!

Yesterday was Jeremiah's 7th (!) birthday.

He wanted hot dogs for lunch.

I asked what he wanted with them.

He said, "Ketchup, mustard, and juicy pickles."

I meant as a side dish.

He wanted chicken salad.

I told him that didn't really go together.

He didn't mind....

We took our chicken salad and hot dogs to our river

and built a little fire.

For a while

we thought we were going to have to just eat our wieners at home

but we finally got a small blaze going.

Fortunately

 we'd finished eating 

and had already soaked the logs in the river

when the Sheriff drove by.

We discovered that 

we need to bring towels when we go to the river.

And a change of clothes would be smart, too.

There was  some big news this week, too

but

that

will have to wait till tomorrow.